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But some tea and my gentle words got her talking again. Sometimes I get out of the shower, and take my time putting the towel around me while he’s brushing his teeth or shaving but he barely even glances my direction. Or accused me of ‘only wanting one thing.’ In fact, he has apologized for saying ‘no.’ He has reacted sometimes by hugging me, but a kind rejection is still a rejection. I’d say yes to laundry, the dishes, house work, and going to the gym, but for some reason I was too tired for sex, even though I liked it.What I did feel immediately was that I was unloved and unwanted. Or the other, to find a way to ignore his desire until he simply didn’t want me anymore.It was then that I realized I had trained him not to want me. Over time, he had no choice.” I know you don’t want your spouse to feel “unloved and unwanted,” but I’m here to tell you that if you are consistently rejecting him/her for sex, those are things your spouse almost certainly feels.Do your best to be patient and to make sex as pleasurable as possible for your spouse.Work to eliminate their excuses, if possible, because the more sex that you have with them the more likely it is that he/she will have renewed desire.At some point in your future, it’s likely you won’t regret perceived failure to keep up with household chores, or not getting twenty more minutes of sleep, but it’s likely that you will regret rejecting the person who has stood by your side and who shares life with you.
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Life’s responsibilities and stresses shift and even if you don’t prioritize sex as you should now, it’s likely one of those “shifts” will, one day, also shift your sex drive meaning that you might be the one left out in the cold due to your spouse’s feelings of resentment, distance, or simply finding some way to do without because of your rejection.
Consider the following quote from Emily: “I’ve been surprised by what I usually feel immediately following his rejection.
It is likely that your spouse doesn’t see rejecting you for sex as equal to telling you that he/she is not attracted to you.
It’s inconsiderate, yes, but it’s also most likely in part from ignorance and that is something I truly hope I can help by sharing Emily’s story.
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